The One With the Friends Baby Shower

For the last 15+ years, my sister has had a special way of communicating. She'll insert an applicable quote from Friends into a conversation, smile a bit, and wait to see who quotes her back. Many times, if we're in a conversation together, she'll drop the quote, smile at me, I catch her eye, and we wait together for other people to get it. It's a fun thing to do. "Friends" is definitely part of her vernacular.

So when it came time to throw her a baby shower in anticipation of the arrival of my soon-to-be-born niece, I thought, "how fun would it be to do a Friends theme?!" And then I (foolishly) thought, "well, it can't be that hard." Off to Pinterest I went, because surely someone else had done a baby shower with a "Friends" theme.

Nada. Couldn't find a single baby shower, but I found tons of bridal showers. So I thought, "well, guess mine will be the first." So here we go!

The basic thought was this: let's turn the room into Central Perk! Which we (kind of) did. I bought a roll of plastic brick wall sheeting from Amazon, and a roll of black sheeting from Hobby Lobby. Since we could really only decorate one wall, that's the wall we decided would be the "picture" wall. A poster of the original "Central Perk" finished off the wall. We also combed Pinterest for any screenshots of Friends with references to babies or showers, and posted those screenshots all over the place.

Notice the chick and the duck!

She had to "win" her shower in a mock-game of The Price is Right, which was a lot of fun. Maybe I'll do a post about that next. Anyways, the aforementioned black sheeting was also used to cover the doorway leading into her shower. The door itself was covered with a lilac plastic tablecloth from Hobby Lobby, and one of my bigger yellow frames which read, "The One With Suzanne's Baby Shower."

We made a "coffee spot" at the end of the wall, complete with Gunther's picture looming over it. While I would have preferred it to be bigger, it still made people smile.

The biggest problem/probably most important part was the iconic yellow frames. These were a pain in the butt, mostly because I am so not a crafty person! I tried to make the paint thicker, I tried to paint the whole thing... all turned into a mess. I finally ended up mixing Elmer's glue with the right color paint, then squirted the concoction into swirls on pre-cut yellow frames made out of yellow foam core (which my dad lovingly cut out on his scroll-saw or something like that, bless his heart. Anyways, when someone asked how I did the frames, and I explained the ridiculous process, they asked, "why didn't you just use puff paint?" PUFF PAINT!!!! It would have been soooooo much easier! So, you know, live and learn.

The smaller frames were used on the activity tables. I'm not a big fan of normal shower games, so we didn't do any of those. I had little notes in the frames like "write something funny on a diaper," etc. I just used double-sided tape to stick the frames to any stray 4x6 frames I had lying around (there were tons!), and that was that.

My sister (Suzanne) wanted little notes of encouragement written to her, so I grabbed a 4x6 photo album, painted it black, and then added her name above a screenshot of the "Friends" logo from the credits (note: I found it online, I did my best to respect all copyrights!). There's a "Friends" font that's really spectacular, and worked really well.

The theme of the shower was "We'll be there for you." So I used my last yellow frame and stuck it to a 16x20 canvas that I pre-painted in purple. The theme was written across, and people were asked to sign it. Whether she'll ever hang it is a mystery, but I wanted her to have a memento of her shower that was more than baby clothes/blankets. Update literally five minutes after I posted this originally: it's hanging in her nursery. Success!

And then there was the food. Ah, the food. I was struggling with the menu until one day when I was looking at an episode list. I realized that lots of episodes are named after food! I culled them down to doable things, then wrote the episode names on a piece of chalkboard paper in chalkboard paint. It happened to be most of my sister's favorite foods as well, which was an added bonus. The cake was not my favorite, because I was working on it when I had a crazy fever/cold/plague, but it was okay and people seemed to like it.

And there you have it! Hopefully still the first Pinterest Friends baby shower. I had a ton of fun, she loved it, I'd say it was a success.

The "Spend a Little, Save a Lot" Bag

I don't know if you have seen the crazy-low fares that Frontier Airlines are running right now (blog post to come later), but I jumped on those fares faster than you can blink. Less than $100 round trip to sun and a beach from my land-locked state? Sold! My sister and I decided to take a sister trip - no husbands (easy for me since I don't have one), no parents, no dogs, just us. Ahhhhh.

The only problem with Frontier is their fees. Sweet goodness, I'm surprised the recirculated oxygen is free. Anywho, they wanted to charge us $30 for the carry-on. Since I'm in the running for Cheapest Person on the Planet, that didn't sit well with me. Surely I have a bag that will be workable with the personal item measurements I thought. If nothing else, I'd ship stuff. It'd be cheaper.

I used to sell Thirty-One bags, and still have many from when I was selling them, so I decided to dive into my treasure trove of merchandise. I had one in mind but when I held it up it was a lot bigger than I remembered. Dangit. I thought, frustrated. That one had all the pockets! I pulled another out (which I grumbled about, because it didn’t have half the pockets), and went off to find my measuring tape.

My preferred bag was too big, but the second one I pulled was absolute perfection. I mean that - I double-checked the measurements allowed for a personal item on Frontier and this bag was basically made to fit. It's called the All-Day Organizing Tote from Thirty-One, and it is heaven-sent. The personal bag requirements on Frontier are bags that are less than 14x8x18 inches, and the Thirty-One tote is 13.5x7x17.5. Ding ding ding! We have a winner!

Here’s a picture of my bag (sorry, I don't think they make this pattern anymore), and a picture of almost everything I crammed into it. If you can’t tell from the photo, this includes:

• Beach towel
• Disney backpack (souvenir)
• Disney puzzle (souvenir)
• Jeans
• Yoga pants (not pictured)
• Shoes
• Flip-flops (not pictured)
• 1 book
• iPad mini (not pictured)
• Clutch
• Wallet (not pictured)
• Charging cords
• 5 shirts
• Dress
• Make-up bag
• Toiletries bag
• Socks
• Swimsuit
• Power bank (w/ box)

For this trip I decided to take the "less-is-more" approach, but still managed to wear something different every day. This bag is $45 from Thirty-One, compared to the $30 for a carry-on (or $60 if you pay at the gate!). If you carry this bag twice, you've already won. I had women on my Frontier flight coming up to me saying, "that's so cool! I need one!"

There were a few small maneuvers to get it to fit into the sizing box, but the bag doesn't allow for much more than will fit. It truly was the perfect bag to have as a personal item, and I would recommend it to anyone. Because the fabric wipes clean, we even took it to the beach and used it as our beach tote. There are four pockets inside, and a small pocket outside. I would've killed for a few more pockets, but it worked just perfectly.

If Frontier continues these ridiculously low fares, I'll keep flying whenever I jolly well please. And you can bet that my trusty bag will be with me wherever I go!

*Full disclosure: I used to sell Thirty-One bags, but have been inactive for almost a year. This is not a paid endorsement in any way, shape, or form. I have nothing to gain from recommending this bag. If you are interested in ordering, order online here or contact a Thirty-One representative.

Bing! Have a gift card!

Until about 2 years ago, I was a Google girl all the way. I wouldn't even touch another search engine. Then, a (now former) coworker of mine said, "hey, can you sign up for Bing with this link? It would help me out!" I signed up and didn't think much about it. Then he told me that he was just a few points away from getting a gift card.

Wait wait wait, back the truck up. You get money for using Bing? As it turns out... heck yes you do! Actually, not money: gift cards. To places like Sephora, Amazon, and Starbucks. Good grief, it's like they've been following me around.

So here's how it works: you sign up for Bing, and then you use it as a search engine. Super easy, right? There are three levels, and once you hit Gold, life is grand. You get points for every two searches you do, and I've found the points are surprisingly easy to rack up. As of right now, after about 2 years on the site, I've gained 10545 points. Which is roughly twenty gift cards (give or take since you start out at a lower level), and about $100 in free gift cards. Not too shabby! It's not millions, but it's enough to keep me on Bing.

So there ya go - another way to make free money. If you want to sign up, feel free to use my referral link (full disclosure: I'll get points if you do). Now get out there and start making money!